Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him and He will direct your paths.
Proverbs 3:5-6

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Sunday, April 22, 2012

We Are Alive!!!

We have been with our little man for 16 days, at home for 9 days!  We get the following questions quite often...
  • How is Robel doing?
  • How are the girls adjusting to life with a brother?
  • Is he sleeping through the night?
For starters, I was told many, many times that girls and boys are so different.  Of course they are!  These people that were sharing their incredible insights, did they think I was clueless?  Well, I kind of was.  Robel is gross!  The girls were clean and sweet and didn't like mess.  In fact, Sara was so concerned with germs that we thought she may be borderline OCD.  Robel, on the other hand, eats dirt, spits his food out, pretends to burb, and LOVES the whoopie cushion! 
However, he is the sweetest thing ever!  He hugs like no 1 year old I have ever seen.  He will grab our faces and plant a big old sloppy kiss on the lips while adding the appropriate "mbah" sound effects!  He LOVES to laugh and giggle and play ball.  In the morning, his favorite thing to do is wake up his sisters with lots of tickling and squealing. 
He likes our dog...he LOVES our dog.  I was so nervous that he would be scared of her.  Quite the opposite, actually.  I think the dog is a little scared of him.  He squeals and chases, kisses and occasionally tries to bite her.  What dog wouldn't be scared, right?  I know one day they are going to be best friends. 

So, I guess we can say that Robel is doing great!  We struggle a little with food issues, but I am often reminded (as it has been quite a while) that most toddlers aren't big fans of food!  Thank you to our pediatrician for putting my mind at ease!  As for the sleeping, we are getting there.  Every day gets a little bit better.  In fact last night was a 9pm -7am kind of night!!!  Daddy and Mommy are feeling better everyday!!!

The girls, as well, are doing so great.  Abby has had a little bit of an adjustment not being the baby anymore, but she is figuring out that she has a very special place in our family that no one else can fill!  Sara is just the biggest help!  I still can't get her to change a diaper (haha), but she is so helpful in other areas!  They both make us so very proud!  They are the best big sisters. 
 Last night we were laying on the floor in Robel's room playing with him after bath time.  He was quite excited and running from one person to the next.  We were all laughing and reaching out for him.  Bob finally looks at me and says, "This kid is going to think that the world is here to make him happy!"  Right now, that is our goal.  We want him to feel safe and secure, happy and loved!

3 comments:

  1. JJ, I am so happy to hear that Robel is doing great. I am so excited for your entire family! Tell Bob hi for me. You guys were so great to us in Ethiopia, can't thank you enough. Marta "Lainey" is doing well. Fun reading your blog! Ty

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  2. Posting this here, too, cuz I'm not sure if you'll get e-mailed the comment I made to you on my blog :)

    Oh my, JJ, it is so so good to hear from you! And to read about the recent adoption of your sweet little guy! He is soooo cute!

    At the same time, I'm so sad to read about your mom :( She's such a wonderful woman! I have such fond memories of all of you guys, and you will all be in my prayers.

    Thanks for checking out our blog! We're super excited about adopting - not ready for the long process, but excited nonetheless :)

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  3. Sounds like things are going great. I'm so happy!

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